91 year old grandpa’s 75 year old girlfriend is really suspicious.

My family and I are really concerned about my 91-year-old grandfather. A few months ago, he started seeing a new girlfriend (she’s 75), and things escalated quickly. They've only been together for about three months, but now she’s constantly by his side—literally always around. Some red flags we’ve noticed: She’s started scheduling all his doctor’s appointments. She writes his checks (he still signs them, but she’s filling them out). His memory is noticeably declining, and she seems to be taking over more and more of his daily affairs. She’s had him buy them theater memberships, go to auctions, eat out 2–3 times a day, etc. His credit card statements have suddenly skyrocketed. (2700$ compared to the average 900$) She constantly emphasizes how "technologically inept" she is—but recently, my mom found something strange on his laptop. There was an active call recording running, and it was associated with her phone number. (I have a picture of it but I can’t attach in this sub) It looked like it had been recording or connected for nearly 24 hours straight. We’re worried she might be remotely accessing his computer or using it to record conversations with his kids (who are worried and trying to protect him, but she never lets them get a word in!!) My mom, aunts, and uncle are all furious and unsure what to do. We don’t want to overstep, but it’s starting to feel like elder financial abuse and manipulation. Is there any legal action we can take? Is there a way to investigate what she’s doing on his devices? Has anyone been through something like this? Any advice—legal, tech-related, or just personal experience—would be appreciated.

What to do about this razh

Worried it might be lymes disease but i have no idea

hmmm