Need help interpreting reading abt coming out to family

Hi everyone!! I’m still pretty new to witchcraft n tarot - been at it like a month and a half, only doing daily pulls and trying to get to know my deck a bit. However, I recently found a full moon spread that u/growingthroughcracks shared, and its results convinced me that it’s time to start opening up to my family about my gender identity. I’m finally in a safe place to do so, but have been apprehensive about it as they’re not the most accepting of folks. In the moment I decided to improvise a few pulls to help guide how I proceed. Deck is homemade, on flashcards (im one of those ppl who doesn’t believe in buying their own decks, and in the absence of any gifts any time soon, I improvised!), using standard Rider-White-Smith deck rules n interpretations. All that said, here are my pulls and thoughts: Page of Pentacles - If I tell my mother first, she will love and support me through it as I talk to the rest of the family. This pull is the one I am most skeptical of, as she has historically been the most verbal about her bigotry towards lgbt people, and most averse to other perspectives, under the guise pf “just asking questions.” Page of Swords - If I tell my father first, he will have the most questions - though they will probably be in good faith, and stem from genuine confusion. I will need to be especially careful with how I proceed with him in order to ensure that things go well. King of Pentacles reversed - Of I tell my brother first, he will not accept me. I worry that this all may further radicalize him towards hate? The Star Reversed - General advice may suggest that I need to remember that I deserve love and support from my family, and not be afraid to demand it from them. I’m really scared that this card might suggest things are not going to go well. Though I guess that’s to be expected… I’ve noticed that my readings tend to go more blunt or cruel/pessimistic than other ppl who I talk to about my pulls, and I might read cards a bit too literally. I wanted to outsource my readings since it is a sensitive topic and I think my uncertainty and fear are making it very hard to find clarity. Thanks so much and sending my best to yall