Losing my phone or losing my mind?
What about it?
The only reason I agreed to share my location with her was so she could STOP constantly asking me where I am. I’m at the smoke pit at work… what do you think I’m doing?🤔 anyone else have a parent that acts like a parole officer?
My Mother’s Response to Going No Contact
What about it?
For context, my father is in prison for molesting me. She still denies that I was abused and insists I get a great childhood. She wanted to have a better relationship with me, so she volunteered to watch my daughter once a week. Then she decided she needed a roommate. I asked her to not get a male roommate because I worry about my child being molested. She acted all offended that I would worry about such a thing. I got really upset.
My husband and I decided to go NC with her after taking to our therapist. My mom’s response was basically “Lol. Guess I get to sleep in!â€
Mom forgot my birthday
What about it?
That alone doesn’t make her insane, but it’s a pattern of neglect. In 2001, for example, when I was 19, I moved out to live with her because my life was falling apart. I was reaching out for help, and willing to go to therapy or whatever I could to improve my life. After a grueling drive half way across the country, I arrived almost broke, and because I had no money that I spent mostly on the trip, she put me in a homeless shelter. My last text from her is when I texted her on Mothers Day.