Is there a way to interpret this other than a US citizen shooting a citizen of Mexico on their own land?

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Dad will text me stuff like this to guilt me into ordering him take out, usually he adds how hungry he is. I’m sick of it and don’t know what to do.

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Told her I was gonna spend the weekend at my dad’s.

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NC for one year, but pretty sure Hurricane Hilary prompted this.

What about it?

Went NC after years of issues but boiled down to poor behavior from my stepdad and mom defending that (yelling, namecalling, forehead smack, charging me rent then using indoor cameras and not allowing guests, etc). It’s not an outrageous message but still feels so disruptive to my day. Part of me is so tempted to email back either updates or a reminder that I only want to consider a relationship if she’s willing to talk through everything that’s happened and come to an understanding regarding boundaries. Part of me wants to email her updates on how I’m doing. Why can’t she just respect the no contact so I don’t go through this mess of emotions.

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Recent gave my dad another chance and this what I got 2 days later

What about it?

After 2 years no contact my father, this was the message I got from him not even 3 days after I allowed him to have contact with me again. (Bella is my younger half sister) He wants me to send him a 2-4 page paper from something I have written in college to send to him for an interview he is having. My therapist is going to have field day with this one.

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Typical abuser behavior.

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threatened over nothing

What about it?

not technically a parent but my mothers boyfriend. hes a drunk, fell over one night and knocked his tooth out on a table. got a replacement and ended up losing it. obviously the blame went to me as i must have taken it, no way the loser just misplaced it. fast forward he got a new tooth and not even 2 days later loses it again, so much more shit happened that night (including him macing us with dog mace???) that i’m not going to post, he felt the need to threaten me ONLY FOR IT TO BE IN HIS POCKET.

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I was taking a nap. 😭

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(Mother) Explanation in body text

What about it?

(15-yo btw) Insurance changed, and so did our doctor. I had to create an account under their online program, with her as my parent. She wanted to view my appointments, which apparently only i could, so i sent her a screenshot of my appointments (directly above these messages). Talked with her irl and explained that the only thing i could see that she couldn’t was the attached screenshot. She wanted my login information (user & pass, which i use for other socials with slight variations) and i said no, find another way, and/or just ask me. She got mad, and demanded my information. Caved in and gave it to her, but in the middle of giving it to her, she discovered she can “request access” to my account and see everything as i could, because she is a parent. I told her to just do that, which she did. Asked if i could go, she said yes, so i left. 40-50 minutes later im laying in bed and check my texts, to see the attached screenshot. I go down and ask her what she’s talking about and she says “if you want anonymity and to hide secrets you can pay your own bills” (15 & jobless in USA). Get into an argument and find out she’s mad that she doesn’t have my info and thinks im hiding things from her…??? I tell her that she requested access to my account and would get it in 3 days, as the site said. She (for some reason) was mad she didn’t have it now and kept demanding i give her my login. 15m or so of arguing my point and i give her my login. Said i was still gonna have to pay for my portion of bills and accused me of hiding secrets. Mentioned some things about government turning kids trans under her breath (im ironically trans in the closet, unrelated but made me less willing to give her the login) What is she on abt??? Advice? And yes, she has a personal grudge against my nails and said she would stop bringing me to school etc if I didn’t keep them without white.

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