Final post, thank you all for the help yesterday...
I was able to go to the store this morning and grab a better, longer dress. I appreciated everyone's thorough and honest feedback, it helped a lot.
Sorry the shoes and my long ass toes were here to stay
Previous posts:
https://reddit.com/r/Weddingattireapproval/s/dZpBKEj0fl
https://reddit.com/r/Weddingattireapproval/s/ecmbZaoY5i