hmmm

hmmm

No one starts perfect

Cursed_consent

Poor father (heil spez)

Is there a way to interpret this other than a US citizen shooting a citizen of Mexico on their own land?

Me_irl

Yikes

Dad will text me stuff like this to guilt me into ordering him take out, usually he adds how hungry he is. I’m sick of it and don’t know what to do.

Told her I was gonna spend the weekend at my dad’s.

NC for one year, but pretty sure Hurricane Hilary prompted this.

What about it?

Went NC after years of issues but boiled down to poor behavior from my stepdad and mom defending that (yelling, namecalling, forehead smack, charging me rent then using indoor cameras and not allowing guests, etc). It’s not an outrageous message but still feels so disruptive to my day. Part of me is so tempted to email back either updates or a reminder that I only want to consider a relationship if she’s willing to talk through everything that’s happened and come to an understanding regarding boundaries. Part of me wants to email her updates on how I’m doing. Why can’t she just respect the no contact so I don’t go through this mess of emotions.